When
Ron Smith-Murphy, National Chairperson of ISANDS (Irish Stillbirth and
Neonatal Death Society) spoke with me, she gave an emotive account of
the area of Glasnevin cemetery known as the ‘Old Angels’ Plot’
which was in use up to the 1970s when the New Angels’ plot was opened.
Glasnevin Cemetery is a consecrated burial ground, privately owned and
not affiliated to any one religious group. Within its vast area is one
section that for many years was the burial place of adults who were unable
to pay for burial privileges.
When this ‘Paupers Ground’ was closed it lay unused for around
30 years before it became available in the 1930s as the resting place
for stillborn and neonatal death babies. These innocents had one thing
in common: they died without baptism which is held by the Church to be
a sacrament only for the living. Furthermore, in those days the Church
denied permission for any unbaptised to be buried in their consecrated
cemeteries, thus creating a tragic problem for the parents of these babies.
Glasnevin is one of the few cemeteries that allowed these babies to be
buried in consecrated ground. Throughout the country separate areas known
as ‘cillini’ were believed to have been created for the internment
of unbaptised infants.
These appear to have been in use in some places as recently as the 1960s,
with the burial being carried out quickly after death so that the dead
infant was not mourned in the traditional way.
The Old Angels’ Plot is a resting place for over fifty thousand
infants. Up to 20 years ago, when dads were usually totally excluded from
the experience of childbirth, mothers of stillborn babies in the Dublin
maternity hospitals or nursing homes never saw their baby at birth. The
hospital involved would arrange for the baby to be buried in the Old Angels’
Plot and for lots of parents the bill for this would be the only recognition
that they had for their baby.
Many of these parents come back, years later, to trace where their baby
is buried. As up to 50 babies were laid to rest in each grave it is difficult
for parents to place a marker on their baby’s grave, it being possible
for up to a hundred families to be associated with each grave.
With the general changing of attitudes, it became possible for grieving
families to be enabled to express their needs. ISANDS was formed in 1983
and is a support group for all parents of infant mortality. It involved
itself with the restoration of the Old Angels’ Plot.
Over 500 parents who attended a meeting held in August 2004 gave their
support for the restoration plan and Dublin Cemeteries Committee consequently
decided to go ahead with the restoration.
To landscape the Angels’ Memory Garden, the areas which have sunk
or collapsed will be raised with topsoil. Seating will be placed around
the garden, flowers and trees will be planted and the garden divided into
named areas where parents will be able to find out which area their baby
is buried in.
It is acknowledged that this may cause some upset for those who have already
put a headstone or memorial in place and these families are being given
the opportunity to place these markers in a designated communal area.
The overall plan strives to respect all the parents, including those who
cannot mark their child’s grave and want to so badly, as it could
never be possible with the numbers of parents who have an interest in
each grave.
There will now be the opportunity to have each child’s name carved
on a memorial stone. The Memory Garden also ensures that this plot can
never be used for burials again.
The Dublin Cemeteries Committee in Glasnevin and the staff have offered
support throughout the years in helping parents and families trace where
their baby is buried.
They have also prepared the area each year for the annual Blessing that
was first held 15 years ago and was attended by over 2000 parents and
families in 2004. On the 19th June this year at 3pm the inauguration and
blessing of the Angels’ Memory Garden will take place.
ISANDS is a national organisation. They hold support group meetings countrywide
and once monthly in Dublin for the men, women and children of grieving
families. Their website is www.isands.ie.
The postal address is ISANDS, Carmichael House, 4 North Brunswick Street,
Dublin 7. Contact telephone number is 01 8726996.
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