In honour of the 135 women who have died violent deaths in Ireland since 1996 at St Patrick's Church, Ringsend.

Upon entering St Patrick's Church, Ringsend I was struck by the blanket of people all gathered to participate in the commemoration service in honour of women who have died violent deaths in Ireland since 1996.

This was the fourth day of the United Nations of Action 2007, opposing violence against women. As we started up the aisle, we were given a candle and an Angel of Hearts ornament as a commemoration gift.

Fr Michael Coady gave a wonderful welcome to all and outlined the sadness and grief associated with women who suffer under the hands of domestic violence and those that have died violent deaths. He especially welcomed the families who were there to commemorate their loved ones who are no longer with us.

The Ringsend folk group beautifully performed 'Somewhere '.

Anne Delcassion, whose sister died as a result of domestic violence gave the opening address. She described the pain and the grief she experiences like many others attending this evening.

She implored the government to undertake the necessary action to provide women with a choice of alternative accommodation when they have no escape or protection from violent abuse which could ultimately end in their death.

She read a message from President Mary McAleese, in which she described “domestic violence as a double scourge, because in addition to its physical effect on the victim, domestic violence totally undermines the family through fear, uncertainty and betrayal of trust. Love is replaced by anger, trust by fear and patience by pain.”

Betty Boylan, who wrote 'Inside I'm Screaming' bravely and poetically read this out to the congregation. 'Falling Leaves' written by Dave McGilton was performed by Frances Black in crystal clear notes filled with emotion.

The candles were lit and each women's name was called followed by a minute's silence.

Everybody Hurts, by REM was performed by the Choir and Donna Byrne who wrote 'Reminiscing', read it out beautifully and her simple message in the last verse filled the room with hope…

Leaving that day was my new start of a new life, from the old one that tore me apart, the lesson I learned is to please walk away and if you do, you will soon be okay.

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