Motherhood is
a full time job and one for which there has traditionally been very little
training available. The Community Mothers Programme, overseen by the Eastern
Health Board, has been running since 1988. Mothers from the local community
are given four weeks' training in parenting skills and philosophy before
going into the community where each one visits approximately five first
and second-time mothers per month, providing peer support and a listening
service. The community mothers themselves meet once a month to provide
each other with support and there is a regular meeting with a local family
development nurse.
New mothers can often feel bewildered by the conflicting advice coming
at them from all sides and their confidence in their role as the primary
participant in the child's upbringing can be undermined. The programme
encourages them to find their own solutions to parenting problems and
thereby gain confidence in their own judgment. The Community Mothers are
able to adapt the programme to the needs of their own community. The fact
that new mothers are being aided by their peers means that the programme
is non-threatening and all the participants learn from the experience.
They are also provided with information on nutrition and health care.
There is a series of highly visual information leaflets containing clear,
concise suggestions on feeding, weaning and ways to enhance the child's
physical, mental and emotional development.
Liz Sheehy, originally from Sandymount, has worked as a community mother
in Ringsend for five years. She remembers how isolated she felt as a first
time mother and when she heard about the programme she thought it was
exactly what she could have done with at the time. Working as a community
mother has been a learning experience for her and has helped her to feel
more a part of the local community. Many of her colleagues have found
that the programme has given them the confidence to go back to work, do
a course or set up initiatives like breast-feeding support groups or parent
and toddler groups.
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