AUSSIE WONDER BABY
Maggie Neary
When
my son Brian phoned and said the words 'Hi, grandma,' I yelped with joy knowing
it meant that my first grandchild had just been born at the other side of the
world in Australia. Mum, Erin and baby Morgan were doing well down there and
as Brian talked on and said how incredibly beautiful the baby was and how she
had a shock of black hair, the longing to be there sprung up in me.
And so two days later, having made various phone calls to rearrange my life
and negotiate time off work, there I was sitting on the Air Coach smirking from
ear to ear as I texted my news to the world at large. 'I'm a grandma and on
my way to visit my Aussie family. See ya later'.
The thirty-hour journey (door to door) necessitated a lot of cramped sitting
but the worst was the 5-hour stopover in Frankfurt, highly inadvisable but totally
unavoidable on my economy ticket, my travel agent advised me.
Ah, but did I care when I found myself in the bear hug of my six-footer son
in Perth airport at 2am on the Wednesday when I arrived. On our way home we
swung along a deserted motorway, catching a glimpse of Perth city to our right
and catching up on the news. I was going to stay in the house of my as-yet-unmet
future in-laws and a little apprehensive about this, I was also trembling with
fatigue.
After six hours sleep I awoke in my sunlit room, yes 'tis true, it is always
sunny down under. Revived, I jumped out of bed and went to find my new family.
There on the lounge floor lay the little bundle that had caused all this excitement,
the three-day-old Morgan. I lay on the rug on the cool, marbled floor of the
room, gaping in awe at her baby perfection.
Then I met with Phil, Morgan's Aussie grandpa. His easy welcoming way made me
feel immediately at home in their sunfilled house. Lynn, my counterpart in Aussie
was at work but the welcome was repeated that evening when I met her.
I found time to spend some hours in Perth city, which is marvellously small
and truly laid-back. I availed of the free bus service that whisked me in its
cool and pristine cleanliness on a trip around the city.
The bus travelled around the broad boulevards of the Swan River area, the river
itself a wide expanse of cool, clean-looking water. From there we travelled
on up around the business area where the few high-rises are so artfully placed
that they draw for the eye a calm etching which reaches up into the sharp blue
sky.
The city has three main stores, many pedestrian areas and lots of restaurants
and cafes. The bulk of Perth's size is held in the suburbs which stretch along
the coastline in a plethora of houses ranging 50 miles north and south, well
serviced with shopping centres and motorways and train services linking them
to the city.
The West Aussie accent did indeed throw me, bins and Bens being dangerously
confusing and the station Glendalough, just outside the city, being hailed by
the sound of Glendolo.
I loved every moment of my time there. I fell increasingly in love with my wee
grandchild, overcoming my initial nervousness to find myself changing nappies
and waltzing her around in my arms.
I enjoyed the time spent with Phil and Lynn, even finding myself jumping on
the back of Phil's new Harley Davidson, to be taken on a breathtaking trip-
in every sense of the word as the wind from the sea that day was strong and
fast.
I was enthralled watching Erin taking to motherhood with such naturalness and
amazed at both her and Brian's knowledge about baby affairs, learning things
that I had never known before about baby minding.
It was
a treat for me to see both parents being equally involved in the caring of the
baby and equally entranced by their Morgan. Twice while I was there the midwives
visited and gave, according to Brian and Erin, invaluable advice and support.
The six days rolled by in a haze of glorious heat. Each day we lounged around
the spacious, cool house, temperatures outside in this late summer time ranging
from mid-twenties to a once-off high of 37¼ centigrade.
This is serious heat that this northern European ageing body does not cope with
well, but then stepping from air-conditioned house to air con. car to air con.
Shopping centre is a pleasant way to live with this.
Eating in the garden in the balmy evenings and looking out over not-so-distant
sea views from the front windows of one's house is a seduction I gave way to
easily. Meeting with Erin's family afforded me a glimpse into Aussie family
life, which entranced me and left me hoping to get to know 'down under' better.
When I finally left, it was with a great loneliness to be parting from Brian,
Erin and Morgan and also from this new ready-made family that had been so welcoming
and caring of me while I was there.
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